How do I catch my husband cheating?

Cheating tactics are always the same with men and the pattern hasn't changed. Let me briefly tell you how to catch your husband cheating. I'd want you to be very sure of your instincts before you go ahead on any of these listed points. I'd also advise you use the most convenient one.

Action Point No. 1 - Pretend All is Alright - Don't be reactive! Most women do chose to go hyper. No! Be smart and pay attention to details surrounding him. Know that you can't keep watching him all day as that alone is enough stress. There are some thing he would start doing. Don't question his sudden decisions to come home late or travel or hang around friends. Don’t worry about the calls he’s not picking in your presence or refuses to pick. Don’t worry about his change of wardrobe or interest in a new clothing collections. Allow a bird to fly! And while he keeps thinking you're so dumb and even not aware of his cheating moves, he will be creating more space to fall in your net. The more you act like you don't know, the more he would think he has got the space to cheat and in so little time, it will be very open.

Action Point No. 2 - Confide in Someone - Nowadays, i see women hiring detective to give a close watch on their husbands. I think it's not right and more damaging. I would advise you find someone you have known all along or have a good relationship with overtime to help you on this. The person could be his colleague at the office, your sister or brother, family friend, anyone but not a stranger. And don't go about telling every member of your family as that could mean opening up your relationship in a shameful way. Remember, the essence of catching him is not to destroy your relationship so you have to apply max caution and wisdom. If he was seen in an hotel with another woman; his mistress maybe, you can prove your case and still keep your home if it was your sister or relative that saw that more than a detective. No matter the level of damage of your relationship, hiring a spy is more damaging. It destroys it without hope, ask Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt.

Action Point No. 3 - Set Him up - This actually is the easiest. I was chatting with a client last week and she told me her husband was hitting on her sister and she had left the house since she doesn't want to break her sister's marriage. That really must be an extreme measure for any man to satisfy his high libido but it happens everywhere. So i told her, call your sister back in the house, ask her to accept the proposal from her cheating husband. She thought i was crazy. Really it may sound crazy but that's a better close catch. Her sister would act like it's normal to date her sister's husband and that she's not aware of what's going on. She would agree to go on a date with him then in one of the dates, the idea of meeting in a private place would definitely come up and that's all. He just got caught!

Another way, that lady may not be your sister but just some raunchy girl out there. Make the terms really clear from the start as she could be hurt if she goes beyond your instructions. Let their path cross, a little stepping on his toes or hitting on him in a club or his regular spot could start a conversation. A selfie of their first kiss could be enough evidence of cheating on you.

NOTE: Don't do this if you're NOT SURE your husband is cheating on you. But if he's a serial cheat and you want to nail him once and for all, go ahead.

Action Point No. 7 - Create a Fake Social Profile: Now this is interesting! I once counseled a client to do this and it worked perfectly. In fact it corrected the marriage and gave it a fresh start with new goals. Here's how she did it:

* She identified the social platform her husband was so addicted to

* She created a fake profile with a random sexy picture of a lady and made friend with him

* Time after time her husband unknowingly was chatting with his own wife on the internet without giving her attention at home.

* They were so connected and were like lovebirds on the internet not knowing it was his wife.

* As men would be men, he asked for nude pictures which she sent to him without showing her face, just those parts. Of course the high hormone won't make even a sane man differentiate that part.

* All the while, the attention she was lacking at home, she was getting it on the internet from her husband.

* Time to meet was so embarrassing but emotional as they agreed to meet in an hotel.

* Her husband already booked a room and was waiting for this new catch and here comes in...his very own wife.

It's very interesting what happened afterwards.

What you should have in mind mostly is that catching him cheat on you is not particularly to break up with him but for you to find out the infidelity and bring him back to his sense but if you chose to do otherwise, it's your choice.

I hope this helps… Best wishes!